Breaking the Silence of the Lambs

The storms behind the scenes of Daystar Television Network

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Money and power carry tremendous sway in the world of scandal. Add to the mix turbulence in a family-owned Christian television network caused by death, divorce, remarriage, with a shroud of secrecy and it is a recipe that rivals reality television shows. It appears that a member of the Lamb family is poised to blow the lid off of what is happening behind the scenes of Daystar, the second-largest Christian television network.

Daystar Television Network was founded by Marcus Lamb in 1993 and is headquartered in Bedford, TX. Marcus and his wife, Joni Trammel Lamb, started the first Christian television station in Montgomery, Alabama. Marcus said the Lord spoke to him while on the Mount of Olives in Jerusalem to get into the broadcasting business and thus, the roots of what is now Daystar Television Network were planted.

Marcus died in November of 2021 after a bout with COVID-19. He had been very outspoken against vaccination and many guests, including Drs. Peter McCullough, Robert Malone, Pierre Kory, Sherri Tenpenny, and vaccine critic Robert Kennedy, Jr. appeared on the program. After Marcus died, his widow claimed it was not COVID-19 that killed him; rather an undiagnosed heart problem, which seemed odd given that Marcus was in a hospital for weeks receiving extensive treatment for the virus which is known to cause heart problems. Joni and son Jonathan went on the air hours after Marcus’ passing to inform viewers of his “graduation” to heaven.

In the 18 months that followed, the Lamb children and their spouses co-hosted the hour-long live broadcast, Ministry Now. Sympathy poured in from across the world as they struggled to cope with the patriarch’s death. It was noticeable that Joni was losing weight, which is not unusual during the grief process. Everything seemed hunky-dory behind the scenes as the family rallied and stepped up to fill the enormous gap left by Marcus’s death. Fast forward to March 2023 when an announcement by Joni Lamb sent shock waves through the viewership of this worldwide Christian Network; Joni was getting remarried to a man who was known to Daystar because he had been a guest numerous times throughout the years. His name was Dr. Doug Weiss, a psychologist, marriage and sex therapist, recovering sex addict, who recently divorced his wife of more than three decades, Lisa. That was the moment things began to get sticky.

The betrothed couple shared their big news on March 10, 2023, on an episode of Joni Table Talk. Pastor Jimmy Evans was a guest brought in to explain why the divorce was biblical even though there was no adultery involved. That caused confusion and anger among those who take scripture literally because it contradicted what is in the Bible. Jimmy Evans claimed there was emotional abuse in the decades-long marriage and it was okay for marriage therapist Doug Weiss to divorce Lisa. The ex-wife, who was also a guest on Daystar, was painted to be the reason for the divorce, which Doug filed for a few months after Marcus Lamb’s death. Furthermore, it was claimed that the Holy Spirit brought Joni and Doug together and they would marry in June. The beaming couple probably did not expect the backlash.

Joni told her viewers that she mourned her husband of 40 years for six months and cried every night. A friend and programmer on Daystar, Drenda Keesee, informed Joni that the Lord told her He was going to send a man into her life and not to be afraid. Enter the newly-divorced Doug Weiss who was about to start airing his program, Healing Time, on Daystar. Doug gave Joni, the president of the network, a “courtesy call” to let her know his program was going to start airing and to inform her he was now divorced. What is unclear is why Joni didn’t know which programs were on her network or why Doug would have her personal phone number if they were merely casual acquaintances and had a business relationship. Regardless, that phone call led to a series of calls that lasted dozens of hours. Finally, the two decided to meet in New York City. However, according to an interview with Joni during Candy Christmas’ Marvelous Woman Conference in March 2023, Joni said Colorado-based Doug came to Dallas first and the two planned to meet at her home, away from the public eye. Joni told the estrogen-laced crowd that when she picked Doug up at the airport and watched him walk to her car, she thought, “Oh, I’m in trouble.” Later, while the good doctor was in her home, Joni’s daughter Rebecca called because she wanted to bring her little son over to swim in the pool on the Lamb estate. Joni said she tried to discourage Rebecca, but she was insistent, so Joni jumped in her car and had Dr. Doug lay on the backseat to hide from Rebecca. The story got appreciative cackles from the mostly female audience, and the interview was quickly scrubbed from the internet.

Next came the chaperoned trip to the Big Apple in August 2022. Missing from the current account is that the “chaperones” were Joni’s son, Jonathan, and his wife, Suzy. It was there that Doug claims that God told him to buy Joni a heart necklace at Tiffany’s and kiss her in front of the Empire State Building.

It might be an intimidating assignment for an ordinary recently divorced man to kiss the wealthy widow of a Christian media mogul, but Doug Weiss was no stranger to bold behavior with the Almighty. He was a guest on Joni Table Talk four months after canoodling with her in New York City to tell his story about giving God an ultimatum. He described his younger self as a 19-year-old sex-addicted, alcoholic, drug addict who wanted to die. He gave God a 30-day notice; a deadline for his life to change. He credited his obedience to the Lord during that month as the reason things turned around. Dr. Doug told the audience, “I had to go through healing to become a healer.” He is the founder of a counseling center, which according to its website, “brought husbands and wives back together and helped couples find their intimacy again.”

The long-distance romance between Doug and Joni had an advantage during their courtship: Daystar’s private jet. Pastor Planes, an investigative project of the Trinity Foundation, tracks the use of ministry-owned jets. According to its report, since October 2022, the Daystar jet made 24 round-trip flights from Fort Worth, TX to Colorado Springs, CO. The destination apparently wasn’t a mission to minister to lost souls.

Dr. Doug Weiss’ practice, Heart to Heart Counseling Center is in Colorado Springs, and he owns a home there. The website states that it specializes in “sexual addiction counseling, treating intimacy anorexia, supporting partners, as well as marital counseling and healing.” It goes on to tout Dr. Doug Weiss as a nationally recognized psychologist and sexual addiction expert who “continues to use his expertise to heal marriages.” Absent from Dr. Doug Weiss’ curriculum vitae is the disciplinary action he faced in 2002 and 2010 by the Boards of Psychologists and Licensed Professional Examiners in the state of Colorado. Also missing is the malpractice claim Dr. Doug settled via arbitration award in 2021. He was denied malpractice insurance coverage in 2010 and 2021.

Dr. Doug Weiss and his first wife, Lisa, were guests on Daystar dozens of times. Doug often lavished praise on his wife and insisted divorce was never an option.

In an article titled “One Minute Turnaround – A Marriage Exercise” published on March 20, 2015, Doug wrote: “ I started to say out loud the wonderful things I knew about my wife: Lisa is a godly woman. Lisa is a great lover. Lisa is a great friend. Lisa is absolutely gorgeous. Lisa will always be a faithful woman.”

In another article, “Protect the Miracle” published on May 3, 2016, Doug writes, “My marriage to Lisa is a miracle; God did it, not me.”

On a May 2019 episode of Joni Table Talk titled “Sexless and Married,” Doug emphatically stated that “Christ died so we could have great sex.”

Amid much pomp and circumstance, and plenty of scrutiny on social media, Joni Lamb and Dr. Doug Weiss entered the state of holy matrimony on June 10, 2023, with Jimmy Evans officiating. Joni wore a white low-cut, off-the-shoulder wedding dress as they recited their vows, including the promise to be lovers for life. The couple’s nuptials were toasted with non-alcoholic champagne at the reception. Doug danced with his unsmiling daughter, Joni boogied with her “besties”, and then the new Dr. And Mrs. Weiss drove off into the sunset in a white Mercedes convertible complete with a “Just Married” sign.

After a couple of honeymoon trips, the tanned and rested duo went back to work. Doug now perched in the host seat, formerly occupied by Joni’s children and their spouses, and his bride introduced him as the new host of Ministry Now. It was awkward, but viewers hadn’t seen anything yet.

Marcus and Joni’s only son, Jonathan, was credited with keeping Daystar afloat after his father’s untimely passing. However, that seemed to be forgotten during the July 11, 2023 episode of Ministry Now. Jonathan finished his segment, and said, “Back to you, Mom.” That seemed innocent enough but caused newlywed Joni to visibly flare and reprimand him on the live broadcast for not mentioning hubby, Dr. Doug. That was the last viewers saw of Jonathan Lamb and his wife, Suzy on Daystar programs. The official word from Daystar was they were on sabbatical. Comments that pressed the issue were deleted from Daystar’s social media and users blocked from the accounts on multiple platforms. Joni was very vocal about censorship during the COVID-19 crisis and Daystar sued Vimeo, a video hosting platform, for removing its COVID-19 content. Now Daystar was deleting and blocking people in its audience who had questions and differing viewpoints.

After months of speculation, Jonathan Lamb posted on Instagram on Sept. 20, 2023, to clear up his position with the network that his father founded. He wrote, “I serve as the Vice President and am in the office daily. As for returning to television, we don’t have a timeline of when that will be. Since I was a young boy, I have always known my calling was at Daystar to serve God in my father’s legacy. I will never walk away from it. I stand faithfully where God has me and keeps me.”

As the months continued to pass with no mention of Jonathan, Suzy, or their two children on Daystar, questions about when they were coming back to the broadcast intensified. Meanwhile, the newlyweds were plenty busy. Joni had purchased a property down the street from the mansion she shared with Marcus in Colleyville, TX, and had the house that was on it demolished.

She was building a new mansion for her new chapter. Joni purchased that property for her new dwelling on March 17, 2022, about four months after Marcus died. Construction is underway on a $3.9 million, 9,738 square foot residence complete with a pool, sauna, outdoor kitchen, and of course, a gym for her new husband who is a bodybuilder in his spare time.

Joni announced a new book, “Through the Storm: Courageous Faith in Turbulent Times” that would be released soon, the speed of which is likely a credit to the skills of ghostwriter Max Davis, who posted on December 6, 2023, about his marathon writing session: “Wrote 18 hrs straight trying to meet deadline on Joni Lamb book. Brutal. But I believe anointed. Holy Spirit showed up. FYI, I’m her collaborator/ghostwriter.” One of those storms dates back a couple of decades when Marcus Lamb began an affair with a colleague that lasted several years.

Marcus and Joni went public in 2010 after three employees threatened a lawsuit, alleging they had to cover up the affair. Marcus and Joni went on television, including Dr. Phil, to confess the adultery and claimed they were victims of extortion by the former employees who were demanding $7.5 million to stay quiet. Lawsuits and countersuits were filed and later dismissed. Joni said she stayed with Marcus because the Holy Spirit told her, “He was worth fighting for.”

It wasn’t addressed whether that was the same “holy spirit” she credits with making Doug her second husband since the outcome was divorce rather than reconciliation in the Weiss marriage. The wedding video was broadcast months after the nuptials. It is called “Love’s Miracle.”

While juggling all of the busyness and also running a world-wide Christian television network, according to the Trinity Foundation’s investigation, there were 13 round-trip flights on Daystar’s jet from Ft. Worth to Destin, Florida. The perpetually tanned Dr. Weiss and his new bride must have fallen in love with the Florida Panhandle because, the Trinity Foundation reports, the couple bought a $2.9 million beach condo in Sept. 2023. Also in their real estate portfolio: a lake house in Granbury, TX which she and Marcus purchased, and Doug still owns the home he shared with the previous Mrs. Weiss in Colorado Springs. It was listed for sale in March 2023 but taken off the market six months later.

Recently, it is apparent through social media posts, that the cat is wrestling to get out of the proverbial bag. Suzy Lamb is clearly ready to spill the beans. The seemingly submissive and stunning daughter-in-law of the powerful Lamb family is finding her voice.

In an Instagram post on May 10, Suzy revealed that she had been experiencing crippling anxiety and panic attacks since 2023 and was in counseling. She concluded her post by writing, “I can’t wait (to) share this wild story which is our testimony. It maybe (sic) their nightmare, but the truth always comes to light and won’t stay hidden.” A few days later, another post that gave more insight: “It all began last year this time when I was (sic) said I was no longer going to be used or silenced under the word “submission” but that I would speak the truth as the Holy Spirit leads me.. to bring everything to light by blowing up all the dark tunnels of how the liars operated for so long. I saw the rage in the eyes that looked back at me. I knew in that moment – I was about to face the most terrifying battle ahead but I knew God was with me. People in ministry I respected were “sent” to get me under control – they told me to compromise ON THE WORD OF GOD… in order to “protect my platform and all that God had for me”…

More posts followed and have hundreds of supportive comments, including some from her husband and Joni’s only son, Jonathan Lamb, and her mother, Tanuja Sagar. She, along with her husband, Jai, were fired from their positions as spiritual advisors supervising Daystar’s highly-promoted prayer line.

Despite public rumblings, it’s business as usual at Daystar. Dr. Doug took a week off to travel to Colorado Springs to “heal people.” The Daystar jet felt the calling a few days after he left, making a jaunt to Colorado Springs on May 15. Airplanes must be very dear to the Lamb dynasty. After the Trinity Foundation published its investigation into the use of the ministry jet, the family did a skit live on the air to celebrate son-in-law Joshua Brown’s birthday. The theme was who could identify the airlines by looking at the tail emblems. Grandson Judah Brown was also featured in the game show-style production on the Christian broadcast network. Little Judah gleefully shouted out the correct answers in prerecorded snippets while wearing a bomber jacket. Earlier, Joni received flowers from her sons-in-law, Joshua (married to daughter Rachel) and Jonathan Weiss (married to daughter Rebecca and no relation to Doug.) Joni thanked them for the bouquet, referring to them as her beautiful “sons”, but did not say a word about her firstborn son, Jonathan Lamb. The episode was quickly deleted after it aired.

Daystar had even more scrubbing to do to erase the presence of Marcus Lamb’s only son and daughter-in-law. Shots of Jonathan and Suzy were removed from the video open of Ministry Now, and episodes of the show they hosted for years, The Green Room, vanished.

There is a storm brewing. The silence of the Lambs is being broken, bit by bit, post by post. Buckle up, or as they say in the broadcasting industry…stay tuned!

28 responses to “Breaking the Silence of the Lambs”

  1. Debbie Childress Avatar
    Debbie Childress

    Let’s just be honest…Joni needed a booty call -she and Marcus hadn’t had sex for years, and Doug knew it.
    This whole situation is nauseating.

    I will never give to ANY ministry again unless I can review their financials.

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  2. Was oblivious to this sad story. Just got wind of the whole mess. Shocking & disappointing to say the least. But nothing is hidden to God-so best to leave it in His hands; rather than get caught up in the enemy’s snare. Let’s all keep our eyes on the Lord-He is faithful in every way (& will certainly sort everything out). Also, just FYI Joni has a program carried on Real America Voice tv station (through Pluto app on Comcast.) aI have watched occasionally & tho some seemingly Godly teachings were shared-I couldn’t quite warm up to Joni-guess now I see why.

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  3. Robert W. Faver Avatar
    Robert W. Faver

    I challenge everyone having written these comments to be committed to abandon Daystar and all of the ‘actors’ who have desecrated and disrespected the Name of God. Jonathan and Suzy, be strong in your truth to bring justice, right the wrongs and condemn those who have violated God’s truths.

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    1. I agree. Stay strong Jonathan and Suzy. This, to me, seems it’s all happening because the enemy came into the picture, bringing this man into your family. The enemy doesn’t want family together and I believe Doug was that tool for the enemy. His divorce was ungodly and jimmy evens is completely wrong. Jimmy will answer to God for that I’ll advise.
      I will pray for your family, one day it will all come out because God doesn’t leave the wrong hidden. He will reveal this sin your mom and Doug have committed.

      Jimmy Evan’s has no business dictating what should happen here. He needs not to speak for your mom. If she is so strong she should be big enough to speak to you two alone.

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      1. Yes doug is bad news, but the trouble started before doug.

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  4. I am feeling bad for Joni that Doug has charmed into marrying him and she is probably listening to his advice about her son. She is not treating her son and daughter in law fairly nor believing them. It might be Doug again sticking up for the male abuser. What a poor poor testimony to the unsaved and a sadness to see Satan having his way ,to the believers!!

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  5. I have questions for the other side of things. First, are there records that Suzy and Jonathan reported this sexual abuse to Texas police when they were FIRST AWARE of it (three years ago)? They said they reported it then and the police decided not to investigate it, because the 5 year old wouldn’t spill the beans. They usually have the child talk to a child therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist, and child welfare gets involved. Allegedly the police—for the allied report made three years ago—never even questioned the accused I mean less famous reports make the 6 o’clock NEW, I do not recall it being in the news. I believe they may have made a report fall of 2024– at the same time they were having a major fallout with Joni.

    Secondly, could money and power be the reason Suzy and Jonathan remained at Daystar for three years after they believed Jonathan’s parents covered up sexual allegations? Also, why would you continue to go on family vacations with someone who sexually abused your 5 year old? Even if you put distance between them, wouldn’t that be traumatic for the child to be in his presence? Weird.

    Also, Suzy says her daughter told her about the abuse, but that her daughter never said who it was. First she thought it could be somebody at her daughter’s school, but learned there were no males at her daughter’s school. Then, from the reporter’s page, it is said the little girl had no recollection of having any such conversation with her mother. If you read the report—it sounds like this was BEFORE Joni ever talked to her granddaughter. Suzy says the daughter never mentioned who it was, yet, she also says both Jonathan’s sisters kept warning her that this family member (by name) was inappropriate with their daughter ????

    Finally, the father (Jonathan) walks in on his naked five year old with this man, and there is no physical altercation and the police are not called to the SCENE.

    This was all reported to the police three years ago (as well as again this year), and nobody got a visit from social services, the police, or a lawyer.

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    1. Hello –
      May I suggest directing your comment to The Roys Report? I have not written anything about the current issues involving Daystar. If you have questions or comments about my reporting, please don’t hesitate to ask.

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  6. Jennifer Coleman Avatar
    Jennifer Coleman

    Joni Lamb is a hypocrite and a liar. God will deal her with his own wrath.

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  7. Mr. Weiss is definitely NOT HUSBAND material!! Joni how & why…🤔I thought you had more integrity than you’re displaying. It’s so sad that he would dog his ex like that. 😡Joni, chile you best be careful!! This is scandalous!! I hope the daughter in-law blows the lid off!! Don’t keep quiet 💯

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    1. This is so tragic. Joni is completely wrong.

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  8. I think Joni was deceived because of grief. I don’t feel any bad feeling about her but Doug is a different story I always felt something isn’t right with him. I pushed it away because everyone else seemed to think he was ok. I pray for decernment every day I should have known.

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    1. I believe when you compromise by covering up the abuse of your own grandchild as her son and daughter alleged that she did, than you are no longer operating through the Holy Spirit but instead you have given place to the enemy. This is why it would’ve been very easy for Joni to begin a relationship with Doug Weiss and find nothing wrong with it.

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    2. I totally agree. I also will pray. I have the same feeling about that man, Doug.

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  9. Sounds like Doug is a classic narcissist. Narcissists can be very charming and in short order manage to get their victims to loyally vouch for them to protect them from any accusations regardless how true and obvious they may be. Joni seems like a fly who flew into Doug’s web, but she has plenty to account for. Her selfish use of assets like the jet betray that she really doesn’t care about truth or standards. Doug pushed her buttons and she responded – big time. Now Doug has traded up from a standard wife to a super-rich wife who will clearly put Daystar into his hands. His narcissistic lust for fame and money is in full ascendence. Anyone who supports or watches Daystar needs to back out immediately. This is not a prophecy, but merely a prediction: This thing is going to get really ugly and any concerns about Christ and His Church will be utterly forgotten.

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    1. i totally agree, I will never watch Daystar let alone send money. Thought I would like to get my money back that was sent yesteryear. This is a classic example of why people in the world hear all this crap and then don’t want anything to do with Jesus. It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish. And I have to ask, why Marcus and Joni never ask Pete why he kept apologizing over and over, I’m so sorry about 50 times if he had done nothing wrong? Then to say the victim took her clothes off at 5 years old!!!!! She was probably told to take them off and then to say to Suzi what about the other wife’s feelings. It sounds too much, too close for comfort, , I’m surprised he’s still alive. It’s amazing Joni says the accused is innocent. She didn’t say that when she found out Marcus was busy boinking someone for 4 years. She was too busy being boss, being in control making money, getting rich. All of this is sickening. God has probably told several Angels to bring him a very big bottle of Tylenol, he has to have the biggest headache in history!!!! And let’s not forget folks, these are Christian people!!!!!?!!?! Saved, born again, preaching the word, bla, bla, bla. Joni keep some of the Daystar money, hell will need redecorating and a whole new a/c system. As frizzy as your hair is, you will need the a/c, and eternity is a damn long time.

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  10. God will deal with liars. You can not go against His word and put on pretenses and expect the Ministry to flourish. All deeds done in darkness will come to light.

    May God have His way in truth and justice and let the pieces fall where they may.

    These big ministries can’t live these lavish lifestyles and think they are okay in God’s sight. Shame on you. Dismantle it all Lord.

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  11. People going through grief often make stupid decisions. It’s best to wait a while before making any changes in your life. It’s also best to PRAY WITHOUT CEASING about everything. Looks like Joni Lamb really didn’t wait to make sure she was hearing from God before getting married again. What a mess! Praying for ALL involved with DAYSTAR. Only God can fix this tragic situation that has rocked the entire network. Whatever else is going on at DAYSTAR will come out. Truth usually wins. So very sad…

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  12. i remember seeing suzy’s dad in the prayer ministry and that he was the one in charge of the prayer lines. i am shocked they would fire him!!

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  13. Is this really true??? What has happened to Johnathan and Suzy is craxy!

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    1. jillgantzyahoocom Avatar
      jillgantzyahoocom

      Both of Suzy’s parents were terminated courtesy of Joni Lamb. They had both been loyal and outstanding employees for many years but were fired simply as retribution for being Suzy’s parents.

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  14. Wow! Completely heartbreaking!

    Praying over the whole bunch of them. It’s sickening to see the destruction of an entire beautiful family, well two families and evidently many other people hurt as well. God is never one to allow lies to continue. God IS Light! Everything’s getting ready to come into the light.🙏🏻🕊️✝️🙏🏻

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    1. This is so shameful. I’m not sure how Joni is sleeping at night but you reap what you sow. She married a “recovering” sex addict, drug abuser and alcoholic. Does she really think he’ll stay clean? I’m sure his addictions had something to do with his first 2 marriages failing. This one will probably fail too. Please stop donating to this ministry! They, like TBN and most other TV ministries are fleecing the flock. Do you have multiple mansions and jets at your disposal? Probably not, so why give your hard earned money to these thieves?

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  15. katie9c1bc26135 Avatar
    katie9c1bc26135

    yup!

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  16. I’ve been trying to warn people about Doug Weiss for years. Here’s a few more awful things about good ol’ Dougy you might be interested in:

    1.Doug is a complete hypocrite! He said this in a Facebook post about Lisa (I have the evidence if you want it) :”Lisa and I settled this issue early in our marriage that murder was an option but divorce, never! We laugh when we tell our friends this but we are committed to the end.”&This in a Medium article in 2017″Anytime, and I mean anytime an accusation comes to you about your wife, aggressively attack it…….These thoughts and accusations are your enemy; don’t coddle them, they are toxic. Even if they are only 1% true, they are still a lie.”… “Thank you that you made Lisa, just for me, thank you for her eyes, her character, her beauty, her intelligence, endurance of me, great sex,”

      2. Doug lied to everyone about his divorce. Doug told many of his clients at his Heart to Heart intensives that he was married and used his marriage as a “shining example”, even though he was already divorced. Why would he lie? He could have just easily not mentioned anything about his marriage. WHY go out of his way to lie about it? For example, one woman (out of many) I spoke to went to Dougs Heart to Heart retreat with her husband in the fall of 2022 (after Dougs divorce, but before he told everyone), and he lied to her and presented himself to still be married, like his marriage was still a “good example”. When she found out Doug lied and was divorced, she confronted him about his lies and he straight up blamed her and tried to make her think it was her fault that she was offended, as if there’s something wrong with HER, and that her trauma from betrayal is why she’s offended (implying that if she was just “healed” enough then she wouldn’t be offended)… Basically, he gaslit the crap out of her and made her out to be some crazy lady acting out of trauma 🙄 I can’t stand when people do that 🤬🤬

      3. Doug and his office have done a lot of messed up things to many women I know. For example, his office did a surprise polygraph on the Betrayed WIFE of the sex addict, and treated her like she was also a part of the problem, even though she wasn’t the one who cheated and destroyed the marriage 🙄🤦‍♀️ The therapist canoodled with the abusive cheating husband to set up the surprise polygraph against the wife 😲. Another wife who attended a H2H retreat was cornered in a room by Weiss, alone, as he circled her like a shark and tried to force her to “talk to her dead baby” 😢. WTF?? That is none of Weiss’s business and has nothing to do with why she was at the intensive or why her husband chose to cheat, lie, and abuse her. It was completely against the code of ethics.

      4. Doug is obsessed with sex and making sure victims continue having sex with their sex addict husbands even if they don’t feel safe to (since their husbands have lied, cheated, and abused. Women should only have sex when they WANT to and feel SAFE to)

      Doug has made women sign “sex contracts” promising they’ll have sex X amount of times a week, and even used fear mongering by telling women at his intensives that if they didn’t have sex with their husbands then they’d lose their husbands 😳. (again, the husbands that chose to lie, cheat, and abuse.)

      Doug also gave women homework to do chanting exercises. Here’s what one woman said of her experience : “Saw him in Fall 2019. He has ‘chants’ you are supposed to do for 1.5-2 hrs each night. One of the chants is to repeat to your husband and vice versa..’I want you sexually’ You repeat this over and over to each other taking turns for a given amount of time then go to the next chant. You are [supposed] to look your abuser in the eyes when you tell him this. ” 😳😳

      Doug tells betrayed victims on his website that “Sometimes there are roadblocks in this area [sexuality], and it is your duty as a sexual servant to heal this area of your being.”. – 🙄 Hurray, Weiss thinks women are sexual servants 😳🤦‍♀️

      OH, and get this, if women don’t feel safe having sex then Doug often labels them as “Reactive Intimacy Anorexic”, which according to Doug is an addiction. So basically Doug pathologizes and blames women, the victims, for not feeling safe to have sex. 🙄 Here Doug tells victims on his website regarding “Reactive Intimacy Anorexia:”Not having enough sex in your relationship may sound like a rather trivial issue. However, a shortage of sex threatens relationships like almost nothing else – and deserves thought and attention.”Like whaat? Not enough SEX threatens the relationship almost like nothing else? Not the addict’s choices to lie, cheat, and abuse her, but it’s HER not having enough sex with him that threatens the relationship like nothing else? 🙄 Oy🤦‍♀️

      5. Many couples pay thousands and thousands of dollars for his intensives and show up only to be told that they have to pay even more money for the books and material that are required for the intensive. And then most of the time at the intensive is spent watching/working on these materials. Alone. Oy. Total rip off.

      6. Doug Weiss is victim blaming (though he claims he isn’t) since he still uses the 12 steps, uses codependency language, and, again, he labels some wives with “Reactive Intimacy Anorexia” if they don’t have sex with their husbands. Doug weiss is also incredibly addict coddling.

      7. Doug’s polygraphers at Heart to Heart, Pete & Chase (his son in law) aren’t licensed polygraphers 😳. Which makes sense why so many men pass the polygraph at the Heart to Heart intensives since the polygraphers have been asking sex addicts more than 4 questions per test for many years. The American Polygraph Association rules state no more than 4 questions can be asked per test (though they recommend 1-3 for best accuracy). When more than 4 questions per test are asked, it raises the error rate significantly, which means someone taking the test is more likely to pass while lying 😳.

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      1. marieflowaolcom Avatar
        marieflowaolcom

        Do you have a website? I have a friend who was counseled by Doug Weiss and she is looking for all the information about him she can find. She said her husband was sexually abusive and Doug took up for her husband.

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        1. Wonder if brother Doug will blame Joni when he gets the wandering eye and he needs to be coddled. This sounds just like he’s an enabler. It’s not the mans fault!, no. He was just walking along, tripped with his pants down and much to his surprise, his penis went right into the closest woman around!!!!! Again, not his fault. Funny you never hear him downgrade women on Daystar. I would like to think some of the women on those shows would have to take him to the mat. I wish I would have someone try to make me sign a contract to have sex x number of times a week. What makes him think his viewpoints are the correct way to handle this kind of problem. And as far as Jimmy Evans is concerned in this mess, adultery is the ONLY grounds for divorce. The Bible does not say anything about emotional abuse. You can get divorced but you cannot remarry. Wonder how much Joni paid him to say that? All of this is sickening and I bet before it’s all over with, God knows what else will come out. I need to get some rolaids as I’m sure I will need help to settle my stomach. If course when I start puking, if it’s as bad as I think it will be, I’ll probably just throw up my stomach. Please pray for regular Christians at this time. We need strength to continue to stay strong in this time of the end, dealing with crap like this!!!!!!!🤬

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